I’ve noticed a lot that when i’m talking to people and I ask them questions about themselves, they never seem to ask me any questions back. I always feel like i’m such a bad conversationalist but people don’t seem to show any interest in asking about me.
Like for example I asked one of my co workers who i’m friendly with and have know for a few months what her kind of music she listens to and she answered the question in detail but, she didn’t ask anything back and instead the conversation died after a few minutes.
why do people do this? am i missing something? I love to ask people questions about themselves and when people do ask me questions i always ask things back so it’s not like we are talking at each other, but instead talking with each other