Context~ GFs dad is a passive aggressive-rude remarks behind your back-make you read between the lines from what he is saying-kind of guy.
Bro literally will never just be upfront about anything and will always say one thing but mean something else entirely and get upset about it later.
The most pathetic part is that he wont even do it to my face, he will pretend like everything is okay and then rant to my gf so that she can tell me instead of him having to do it.
He pulled this crap the other night when he came to visit my gf and I- and I got so mad I told him to stop beating around the bush and grow a pair.
He stood there stunned and then I continued on and told him to complain to my face and be a man.
He came to pick something up and I told him I wouldnt give it to him until he talked to me face to face about whatever was bothering him.
AND HE DID- He ranted to my face and we actually had a fucking conversation and came up with a compromise.
Fast forward to today, gf gets off the phone with her dad and she says that he wants an apology.
I told her he can call/come ask me to apologize and we can have a conversation about what/why.
GF is BEGGING me to just apologize and jsut be done with it
I told her nah, and I told her if she wants us to get married like she is always saying I am not putting up with her dads stupid dumbass bullshit any longer.
Im at a loss- I dont hate him or anything- Hes a good dude and all, just doesnt know how to confront anything and I absolutely refuse to deal with that for the rest of my life. Any advice?