idk why but i get SO much social anxiety talking to random people on discord 😭 especially in french, which is literally my native language. every message i send, i reread like 10 times and even send to ai just to make sure i don’t sound weird, rude, too formal, too dry, etc.
im mainly active in a prussian army rp server and a roblox clothing server, but the prussia one stresses me out the most. i joined bc my best friend has a high role there, but i always feel like im not “cool enough” to fit in. plus everyone knows im french, so whenever they make anti-france jokes (even if it’s mostly roleplay), i still get embarrassed speaking in vc with my accent or even typing in chat 😭
AND im one of the only girls there, which makes it worse bc half the server is weirdly misogynistic and calls girls “foids” anytime we say anything remotely feminine. so i constantly feel like i gotta watch everything i say or ill get clowned on
like they can actually be nice sometimes or i would’ve left already, but i always feel like if i say one dumb thing everyone’s gonna bash me for it
can anyone pls give me some tips on how to get better at this and stop overthinking my messages. or how to sound more casual or something. IDK WHAT TO DO! i dont want ppl to hate me n i just want to fit in but idk how 🙁 these ppl i talk to on discord seem really cool n i wish i could just make friends