Hi! I want to be more of a gentleman and chivalrous to those that are around me.
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Be sure to tip your fedora and greet any woman by calling her “m’lady”
First step to doing this is to make sure you’re desirable enough for it to even count.
A knight being chivelrous is humble. A serf being chivelrous is easier to deal with I guess, but kinda pathetic. Serf should just be trying to maintain his own dignity. Not like be an asshole, but nobody feel special at the chivelrous serf.
Same with chivelrous, except for a class of landed gentry that most Americans don’t know the history of or anything about.
First step: Any kindness you do to a woman, let it not have any reason to court them. Just straight kindness.
Second step: do kind things for women, or men. Fuck it, just be kind.
When a woman is deserving of chivalry, it just comes naturally.
You’re gonna get made fun of hardcore, let me tell you right off the bat lol. That chivalrous stuff has been over with. I mean it’s no excuse to be a dick but just plain standard manners will do
Being kind and helpful to everyone. Not just women you find attractive. This means being kind and helpful to other men too.
Just be kind and treat everyone like you want to be treated. Say excuse me, thank you, give thanks, do things that you’d expect of others. Be polite and considerate.
It’s really not that hard to be an upstanding person in general.
Just start doing it? I swear some of the questions here sound like aliens pretending to be humans.
When you walk past a woman in a fancy restaurant, pull her chair out. Even if she’s sitting in it.
Sure, some of them will complain about being “surprised” and experiencing “lower back pain” from the fall, but secretly they will admire your assertiveness.
get yourself a cape chum!
Be kind for the sake of it.
Be considerate simply because it’s the nice thing to do. Expect nothing in return.
That said you do deserve a thank you, remember those who do. Do it less for people who don’t.
There will always be people who try to take advantage of kind gestures, they may even accuse you of being selfish or inconsiderate. Just stop engaging with them.
You have to be kind to yourself and then being kind to others becomes easier and more natural
Remember, nice guys finish last. Being considerate to women will keep you in the friend zone, however being considerate to people in front of the woman you want will solidify her interest. Just saying.
Do kind things for others without expecting anything in return.
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Be sure to tip your fedora and greet any woman by calling her “m’lady”
First step to doing this is to make sure you’re desirable enough for it to even count.
A knight being chivelrous is humble. A serf being chivelrous is easier to deal with I guess, but kinda pathetic. Serf should just be trying to maintain his own dignity. Not like be an asshole, but nobody feel special at the chivelrous serf.
Same with chivelrous, except for a class of landed gentry that most Americans don’t know the history of or anything about.
First step: Any kindness you do to a woman, let it not have any reason to court them. Just straight kindness.
Second step: do kind things for women, or men. Fuck it, just be kind.
When a woman is deserving of chivalry, it just comes naturally.
You’re gonna get made fun of hardcore, let me tell you right off the bat lol. That chivalrous stuff has been over with. I mean it’s no excuse to be a dick but just plain standard manners will do
Being kind and helpful to everyone. Not just women you find attractive. This means being kind and helpful to other men too.
Whatever your first thought, do the opposite.
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Opposite](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Opposite)
Just be kind and treat everyone like you want to be treated. Say excuse me, thank you, give thanks, do things that you’d expect of others. Be polite and considerate.
It’s really not that hard to be an upstanding person in general.
Just start doing it? I swear some of the questions here sound like aliens pretending to be humans.
When you walk past a woman in a fancy restaurant, pull her chair out. Even if she’s sitting in it.
Sure, some of them will complain about being “surprised” and experiencing “lower back pain” from the fall, but secretly they will admire your assertiveness.
get yourself a cape chum!
Be kind for the sake of it.
Be considerate simply because it’s the nice thing to do. Expect nothing in return.
That said you do deserve a thank you, remember those who do. Do it less for people who don’t.
There will always be people who try to take advantage of kind gestures, they may even accuse you of being selfish or inconsiderate. Just stop engaging with them.
You have to be kind to yourself and then being kind to others becomes easier and more natural
Remember, nice guys finish last. Being considerate to women will keep you in the friend zone, however being considerate to people in front of the woman you want will solidify her interest. Just saying.
Do kind things for others without expecting anything in return.