My husband and I have been having marriage issues for a little over a week. He has finally admitted that he is not physically attracted to me any more due to my weight. I have asked many times in the past if my weight has been the problem and he would always say no. I know the issue is fixable but he says he doesn't want to waste a year for me to lose weight and then me to still be unattractive to him. We have been together 13 years. I wish this issue could've been mentioned sooner. I just don't know what to do, I am feeling so down about myself. This was one of my biggest fears come to reality. I am willing to put in the work but it sounds like he is already given up on our relationship.