Because people that are complete do not seek external validation, they become independent from the need to have someone else in their life.
They have discovered completeness within themselves through individuation, a process where one fully merges with their unconscious self.
Therefore, they are almost never present on dating apps because of this.
Also, because they are typically not interested in mainstream culture and follow their own authentic values, they are often “hidden” from the world, in a sense, and are more likely to appear in smaller, niche communities.
Since most people subconsciously believe completion is only achieved by finding their “other half”, this prevents them from looking inward.
Because they have yet to develop the courage and self-love needed to perform authentic self-introspection, they would rather outsource their inner completion through others.
In other words, attachment can be compared to a narcotic, where a partner becomes increasingly dependent on their partner for self-soothing, misdirecting them from the true purpose of a relationship.
This is problematic, since this only numbs one’s emotional struggles and temporarily blinds them from truth.
Such a mindset breeds a loss of respect, because it leads the other partner to become repulsed by their partner’s needy behavior.
This may also breed disrespect from the other side, because the needy partner feels as if their partner no longer reciprocates their needs.
In reality, most that are present in dating apps seek attachment to numb their hurtful unconscious.