It's starting to take a toll on my marriage. I used to have no problems getting turned on, but lately I can't even orgasm through masturbation. It's been so long since I've felt horny and I miss it, and I know my husband is really hurt by my lack of desire. I'm taking spironolactone and birth control pills, which I believe both dampen sex drive but it's not an option to stop taking either for me. I take Wellbutrin as well, which I think is supposed to increase sex drive? But not really for me. I've been taking a maca supplement for a few months but it hasn't done anything really. Even when I work really hard to turn myself on with erotica, it's still really hard to cum and it feels like more of a chore than anything. Please please help if anyone has solutions.