This started as casual hookup, no expectation supposedly purely physical.
now it has been almost 8 months and he keep coming back.
For context
-I’m 43F meetup with a guy 29M online,we agreed to keep it casual
-he is very attractive young guy.
We had great chemistry, strong attraction from both side.
What stand out is how he is with me physically. And he’s very expressive about it. He’ll say things like how much he love my body, how I feel and how I drive him crazy. It doest seem like something casual to him in those moments and he even brings it up later on all the time.
When we first start tho every time, right after we intimated he would be disappear for weeks and I always thought he’d be eventually gone. He never does.
Just recently something has shifted , after our last meetup we had the most passionate sex. The next day, he checking in on me( he has never done that) even started talking about things outside of sex. For the first time I got “good morning gorgeous”text.
So instead of “hit and run”it turn into something that sits between casual and something else. To be clear, I’m not confused or chasing. I’m just more curious.
Is this going anywhere? Or it can turn into something deeper?
What keeps him coming back? especially when it stated as purely physical.
I know it’s impossible for me and him and I don’t want to keep going if this might turn into something that might hurt us both.