So I'm 23F and I've never had sex before.. I want to wait until I find someone I want to get that close with.. all this while, I always imagined my first time to be perfect.. not in the sense that we would be able to do it perfectly bt that it would be full of love and ill feel loved and sure at the end of it.. bt after to a lot of my girlfriends and reading this book called 11 minutes, I have sort of realized that for most people, sex is boring and they don't experience pleasure.. also most women are not able to orgasm and that made me so sad..ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Is it true and if so, what is a realistic expectation to have.?