So, I think I’m a good husband. I have certainly had my moments and where we’re at, is certainly not where we started for sure. I help cook, clean, kids are grown. I don’t try to fix all of her problems, she goes and spends time with her friends, I indulge her every desire in the bedroom. Whatever she wants, she gets. I did draw the line at choking, I just couldn’t do it. But I do everything else she wants. Oral, anal, look for another girl to join us. All things she wants or we’ve done. I’m not complaining about the sex, it’s great. But, here’s the problem. I want one thing, a bj, that’s it. Now, I would be happy if I only got one on my birthday or Christmas, but no, that’s not possible either. I mean, I do everything this woman wants, I do full service oral, if you know what I mean. I don’t say much, because it’s just not worth the hassle, but yesterday she told me she was on her period and I made a comment about doing other stuff. Anyway, one thing leads to another and long story short…she has the vagina, she makes the rules. In other words, she has sole and exclusive control of our sex life? There’s no give and take? I/we are here to exclusively satisfy the vagina owner? Am I crazy or does this seem kinda shitty? Is this how it works with others? I’m tired of feeling like the hired help around here. 90% of the time, if I initiate, it ends in failure. Tired, busy, sometimes there’s no reason or explanation just a snicker and walk away. It honestly feels like she’s playing a game that only she has the rule book for and it sucks.