Well, I've been dating this guy since 2019. Got rocky in 2021 when my OT went through the roof. The man is great on paper. 300k-500k income(we are not ever going to get married and I make my own money just fine.), look like lean Ryan Gosling with a six pack Calvin Klein model body. Super clean, smart, well mannered and great dad (child not mine). He kicked me out of the house last September and broke off with me. Now we're on and off like every other month. Some days he will talk about retiring with me then the next tell me how bad I make him feel because he doesn't feel like I do enough ( despite driving 40 minutes to see him, paying for dinner and putting on nice lingerie everytime we get it on which is 4-6 times a week when we do see each other). I'm emotionally over with this hot and cold. We saw a couple therapist before and she was no help. What you think i should do?
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so…you’re dating a guy who can’t make up his mind about the relationship? Um idk if hot/cold is your vibe OP, but I’d just leave him. That being said, I’d want someone who is committed and stable. Idk your values.
It’s not within your power to make it work. That would take a commitment from both of you. All you can do is continue to put up with his bad attitude or take a hike.
You are too old to be constantly breaking up and getting back together like teenagers.
Unless you’re okay with being some kind of part time convenience to someone prone to rash behavior this probably isn’t the place to be. This will never be a stable relationship with any kind of security. So the decision should probably come down to whether you’re enjoying it in the moment.
Dear Internet: The rich guy I’m screwing makes me feel like meat. Should I stay?
The Internet: 0_o