Edit: I meant Strict, I think mean is actually not the best word to describe it
Ok so technically not a mean girl. But I’ve started dating again and I’m pretty blunt and have quite a few things that I’m looking for as early as 1st date (normal things) And so started dating again. And there’s this guy that I met on the bumble, exchanged number and texted a bit. And he just kept on texting daily. I grew tired of it and told him that it’s been nice but I’m not looking for a penpal and it would be best to stop communicating. He said okay but then after a day or 2 texted me and asked me out and I’ve asked what’s the plan, there wasn’t anything concrete so I said no.
And he texted again after some time with time and date that he is free next week and a specific plan.
It’s just interesting, Im much nicer and accommodating if I already like a guy but very blunt and strict early on if before a first date and early dating
Do guys actually like this? Or it’s just the chase?