Posting here hoping to hear similar stories and how they resolved, and not "you're creppy/don't force her" since I bring out the topic like once a year and nobody is fucking forcing anybody. I am a good size, dildos were same size or slightly bigger…both girls liked them saying "the stretch feels good" and pushing their cervix against the dildo glans, cummed (with clit stim) on them..then subsequent 1-2 tries went worse and worse till it gets forgotten in a drawer. AND both don't want to throw it out tho, saying "we could use it one day"…the day never comes. I'm 100% sure my current gf never used it once to masturbate, since our bag with the dirties was not moved a millimeter, but so what's the problem or the ego to protect? We have amazing sex and I said i wouldn't care at all if she likes it bigger for a change..otherwise wouldn't have bought it. It's not something oh so important, but is puzzling and concerning seeing the same patterns from two completely different girls.