When I pleasure myself, I am very gentle or my hymen is very sensitive, I am scared this is going to be so sensitive when I have sex that I won’t be able to tolerate the pleasure.

I am very gentle when pleasuring myself and though I get very wet and am gentle when inserting anything inside me, I get very sensitive. I am scared when I have sex with a man and when he penetrates me, that the pleasure and sensitivity from my hymen will be too much for me to handle. I want so much to have sex with a man who is gentle and sensual with me and understands I am a bit scared and sensitive.