Hello good people of r/sex!
My boyfriend and I are finally getting to that point in our relationship where we start sharing things that we’d been afraid to say… and my boyfriend told me that he enjoys being degraded/humiliated during sex sometimes! Woohoo!!
I’m very interested in it as well, and wanted some tips on what to say, to really get him going.
He’s a bigger guy (over six foot and pretty intimidating haha) and he specifically told me that he’s always wanted to feel “small and emasculated” but because of his height and disposition, he’d never been able to feel really emasculated.
He is not into cucking, and I intend to run all ideas past him before we actually try them.
But are some things that I could say, that would not only be degrading, but specifically emasculate him?
Are there any things that I could do during foreplay or during the act that would make a guy feel emasculated?