Hi everyone, just looking for insight on my situation.
I (mid 20s F) have a coworker (30s m). We are both single, albeit I am only single within the last few weeks. I know my coworker likes me because:
- Most important: he told me. He has said he would want to date me, and told me this a week before I became single. He made it somewhat clear it is not just sexual, but also based on my personality and chemistry
- Since then, has constantly messaged me over teams, being way more attentive than required or even should be for his level and how busy he is
- Has stared at me at many points when together in person
- Has said to me that we will talk properly about things next week when together
I am naturally an impatient person, and tbh I just really like talking to him. I gave him my number and said that if he wants to talk non-work stuff, message me there. Before I did this, he said he would call me. He hasn't texted or called, and I'm wondering if I've done something wrong?
Is there a good reason you wouldn't text or call a woman you have feelings for?
Alternatively, am I just being a bit insane and impatient? I'm trying to be not too insane, but I am 5 years out of the dating game and forgot how intense it is to really like someone.