42M/37F together 14 years with kids ranging from toddler to teen. My partner keeps saying we have a sexless marriage…we have sex 70ish times a year (I know because of a health product I use for sex) and I give oral approximately 1x a week. Would most consider this sexless? He has complained in the past and I have done my best but between health issues and exhaustion I am giving it my best.
Thank you all for the feedback. I recently found he was cheating (at least 1 partner for at least 6 months, but I suspect more) and he keeps referring to our "sexless marriage" as the reason. I am losing my fucking mind over here.