Man, whenever I hear someone say shit like "No! Don't ask for exclusivity! Don't mention you want something serious! Let the relationship develop *Organically*"
I'm like stfu. Last time I tried to develop shit "Organically" turned out she was fucking an fwb six months in. Even though she met my friends and family, and we talked about our future together. Her fucking excuse? I didn't ask for "exclusivity"
This has pretty much made me always ask about this kind of stuff and I will never rely on something being *organic* anymore.