I’m now 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend and have been on very few dates due to being shy when I was younger , I recently met this one girl and we had a few amazing dates , we have so much in common we got touchy fast , hugging , holding hands and kissing , our last date was this last Saturday we shared a long kiss and I don’t know if it helps to say she was my first kiss , i honestly believed this meant we were dating I kinda made it seem that way and she became a little spooked and said that we’d need a couple more months before we could actually date to see how things play out , but that she’d want us to see each other exclusively , as the days passed her messages were dry and would even ignore some of my messages and finally today she just left me on read all day without saying anything , I just truly don’t understand what happened my cousin says I made her my priority and would text her too much he told me girls don’t like this much attention and essentially I was feminine towards her? I must mention our dates were always amazing and she always seemed eager about the next one , I truly want to message her and ask what I did wrong or explain my situation when it comes to being new in the dating scene, I truly don’t wish to lose her but my cousin tells me I should just move on and meet new people but I can’t get her out of my mind what should I do ?