So context, one day I 23M decided that I was a little overweight and my dream body is to have a clearly defined 6 pack of abs without even trying. I worked really hard to lose the weight I had (not crazy only like 20lbs but still very noticeable since I wasn't crazy overweight to begin with).
Calorie deficits, gym 5 -6 days a week, cutting out all bad foods pretty much, stopped drinking mostly, huge change. The whole 9 yards.
So fast forward 6 to 7 ish months, I lost the 20 lbs my abs are showing without even trying besides the lower ab (that mf fat has been holding on for dear life). I am in the best shape I've ever been, I look good and feel good and im so proud of myself.
But lowkey I was hoping that this change would also impact the women around me. I thought that yes I'm doing this for me and I want this, maybe as a bonus girls might notice me more. I noticed it a little bit like getting a few more matches on tinder and whatnot but as it goes those usually dont amount to anything, got a few more hookups I suppose.
So the question is do girls even notice this about a dude or do they really not give af.
I am truly just curious, I am not desperate to get a gf or anything or hookup with people but it seems like nothing much has changed, and I did notice in the gym there is always someone else who is stronger looks better sadly haha. Someday that'll be me