He chooses to sleep on the couch, we do not have sex even with me trying to intervene(doing anything and everything to please him). At this point I'm just trying to get through nursing school and I plan on leaving. I am 29 and he is 32 alcoholic and I'm done trying.. I've tried being more cheerful but at the end I'm sick of working 12s while in college and trying to keep up with the house when I have a free moment to clean. I'm also sick of trying to get him to take care of himself while he makes fun of me for taking antidepressants…. I just feel a mess nor can I have fun or do anything without having to please him without a fight.