Our sex life is decent. My wife goes with the flow. She won't ever take charge but is pretty open to anything I want to do. If I pull out toys, she lets me use them. HiSmith, let's me use it. Anal? Do it. Film it? Yep. She is a natural submissive.
However, the other night we were doing anal and I said, "Tell me what I am doing to you." She smiled and didn't say anything. I asked again. She whispered something. I asked again. She said, "fcking my a*s." I asked again. She said it clearer. Again; clearer and louder. I came so hard.
I told her afterwards that her simply saying that made it so much hotter and she should do it without prompting more often. She said, no because she doesn't feel confident to do so. She said she even found the saying "fcking my a*s" weird but she did it anyway.
I am not sure how to get her more confident in this sense? Should I just prompt her each time? It was so hot to hear.