So me, 17F is in a relationship with my girlfriend 17F. We are high school students. Been together for a year for some background.
So my girlfriend has this friend that’s more like an associate or an aquitance right. And we both know her from like class and sports together so we’re all mutually connected. And this girl would always come say hi to my girlfriend (masculine presenting girlfriend ) but completely ignore me (feminine presenting).
Plenty situations she would see me and my girlfriend together and only say hi to her and only acknowledge her. Not even a glance in my direction.
There was this specific time we were all in the bathroom there’s three sinks I was in the middle and my girlfriend was on my left and the girl was on the right. She says hii to my girlfriend and is smiling at her she doesn’t look at me. And i mean idk to anyone else but I thought it was kinda basic manners to say hi to both people especially in a relationship i mean especially because we aren’t strangers yk. So I js find it kinda weird that she doesn’t acknowledge me. If she sees my gf walking like during passing period she will say hi. If she sees me she doesn’t say anything or notice me. So I told my gf how I felt and she finds it weird to so she distanced herself from the girl. Bc I didn’t wanna seem controlling or like be the type to tell her to stop being her “friend” but so she distanced herself.
And a few days later the girl confronts my girlfriend in class and says why don’t you say hi to me anymore. And I felt this was a little weird bc there not even that close and it wasn’t in a joking way or anything. She was seriously offended of like the distance. And I don’t understand why if there js friends. And the girl literally has a boyfriend so idk if she like has a crush on my girlfriend, does she js like her attention or what. I js find it pretty weird am I overreacting or is that like not like unspoken rules of manners?
**TL;DR;** : am I overreacting for this “friend” of my girlfriends that only acknowledges her when she sees both of us.