So I went on a date with a girl I met online. We went to Starbucks so we could talk and know each other more. The date went perfect. We talked, We laughed, and everything felt pretty natural. This girl has everything I look for, she is smart, she has a kind heart, she is Christian, and it looks like she’s into me. The only problem is that after the first date, I really don’t feel attracted to her appearance wise. The question that I have and what I’m not sure of, is if I should tell her, I don’t want to continue pursuing a relationship with her because I don’t feel attracted to her. I have set my mind that I will not continue pursuing her. I’m just not sure if I should tell her the specific reason that I’m not attracted to her physically. I do not want to be rude, but I also don’t know if lying to her would be the nice thing to do. I’m hoping to get some insight from some girls out there if they would prefer for the guy to be honest with them.