I M27 came in contact with this beautiful girl (24) through a dating app. We had been chatting for some few days, before we ultimately decided to meet today.

I went out on a date with her, and it was amazing. We had something to eat at a cafe and went to my apartment afterwards. We talked for hours and had such a good chemistry. I drove her home eventually, and we ended up making out in the car. She wanted to meet me again so badly.

However, I just found out that she’s the sister of a girl who I used to have sex with, around 5 years ago. We were just FWB at the time.

Don’t know what to do. It’s a bit awkward.

Cause I felt a special connection with her.. and she’s really into me too.

Should I just tell her we can’t continue dating??🙁 I know she will be so heartbroken, and I obviously don’t want that to happen..

Any advice?😬


15 comments

  1. Tell her the truth—that you’re super into her but you have to let her know you’ve realized you used to be FWB with her sister 5 years ago—and say you want her to know before anything else happens so she can decide how she feels about that.

  3. Just communicate that to her and discuss how she feels about it. It’s a really unfortunate situation. if you don’t feel comfortable dating her because of the situation then you can break it off. But you should at least explain that to her

  5. Would you want to sleep with someone that slept with your brother or cousin? You’d get the ick right?

    Tell her immediately, and brace for the likely potential that she ends it. Sorry bud.

    Also, man you have a type 😅

  6. I’ve been in a similar situation, but reverse and with a close cousin. Personally, I wasn’t able to get over it deep down even though I thought it was fine on the surface. I found out months after dating and she realized when she met close friends and family about a month into dating. We dated to for a few years and it always lingered and didn’t realize how much it affected our relationship until way after we were through.

    Best you can do is tell her 100% the truth. Feel out the situation and you can both decide if it’s something you can move forward with. The more you dance around it, the more awkward and a waste of time it will be.

  7. The connection you have now is more important than the memory of a FWB. Keep things good faith, have a conversation.. no need to get into detail, but make sure there’s clarity.

  8. There are already many sound comments. If you want to continue would ask my question about how I would feel if a girl did same to my brother. Good luck

  10. If your morality says it’s fine, then the next step is to see if the girl your dating is fine with it too.

  12. Its a ticking time bomb, gotta get it out as soon as possible.

    Think about it this way, if its going make her feel a way, better to address it now and see if its a problem, than later when it will 100% be a problem.

    Like telling a 14 year old their strict dad is not their biological father

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  14. Bro tbh if you want her you gotta get her hooked first , date her and avoid sister and once she’s hooked be like omg it’s you or maybe she don’t even remember you and don’t make a big deal. This girl could be your future wife bro don’t fuck it up

  15. Bang her first, date and everything until it comes up – if you tell her now it might just end it.

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