Hi, when communicating with my peers who are also my opponents in my career i face problem. For example there is something I know and they don't. I know that thing will gove me an advantage. When we are talking conversation sometimes comes to that point and they ask a question. And I cant eavde the question. However they are prefectly good at doing that. I dont know why i cant evade the question.
And it is not only about "secrets​" that will give me advantage but also things that i just dont want others know. For example there is an exam I booked a ticket and I dont want others know that i am preparing for that exam. Bu they ask and actuallu it is either yes or no. I dontt want to share and they act like why not share bla bla you are always like that. However it is opposite they mever share but somehow my secret is always knows. I dont want to share my exam point i dont want to share what i am going to do. If I say no it will be a lie or the "truth"will also somehow appear in some time. Amyways how can i evade question
TL;DR
People ask question that i dont want to answer. First i dont. Then they pressure me tell me it is yes or no u r always like that ect. But they dont themselves share. How to evade the questions you dont want to answer. How you guys perfect evaders do that?