Long story short, my best friend’s last marriage ending because her husband had been cheating on her with multiple women including one of her other best friends.
She has recently gotten married again to an absolutely wonderful guy.
The thing is, she’s still super paranoid this guy is gonna cheat too, with ALL of our mutual friends. (that were also in the bridesmaids line up with me)
She regularly vents to me and asks if I thought (insert random friend’s name) was being flirty with her husband. In my opinion they are not.
She will constantly talk about how beautiful these friends are and how it would be so easy for them to steal her husband away.
And she’s made multiple comments along the lines of:
“I’m so glad I don’t have to worry about you, OP.”
Recently she asked me to drop something off at their house and her husband was already home from work. She later tells me she was glad it was just me and not (other friend’s name)
This has made me very uncomfortable for a few reasons:
1. She has a horrible idea of the kind of people both her friends and husband are.
2. It’s kinda making me feel like I’m uglier than our other friends. (I know this is self centered but it’s how I feel)
How would you approach this situation and if you think it’s not worth bringing up any advice to help me not feel self conscious about being the “chopped friend”? 😂