So me (18) female and partner (19) male have been together for 10 months. He has told me throughout the relationship he does not watch porn. The other night I cant remember how it came up in conversation but he ended up telling me he was watching porn and I was very thrown off by it because he had told me he did not, I got upset by it, if he had told me he was watching it, it would have been a different story.
Because I had gotten upset by it he went and spoke to his mum and sister about it. I stayed at his house the other night and I was questioning why he hadn't told me he watched it and lied to me about not watching it, he couldn't give me a straight answer telling me I should have expected him to watch it, and it shouldn't be that big of a deal, and I should let the whole thing under the bridge, ignoring completely about how I feel about it.
When I was staying there his mum come up to me and started going on about how porn isn't cheating which I had never said it was, I had said that I felt uncomfortable about him looking at other women having sex. She also told me that every guy does it and it should not matter if he does. His sister then got involved and told me the same thing, and she also said that its his body he can do what he wants with it, I had not once said that he could not do what he wants with his body, that doesn't fase me its just the fact that he was watching porn without telling me. She also said to me he can do whatever he wants to in his free time and it should not concern me in anyway and I need to let him do whatever he wants, so they only have his side of the story and decided to gang up on me telling me that I'm in the wrong.
I now do not want to go to his house when they are there because I know they will bring it up again and it will be a reoccurring conversation. Am I overreacting to the whole thing?