M27 (soon 28) and still I never went on a date, I never kissed or had sex. I’m pretty sure there was never even a woman who was romantically interested in me. Approaching the 30’s feels kinda like the finish line to me. It hasn’t worked out in real life and it also hasn’t worked out in dating apps. I don’t even get likes or matches. At this point maybe I have to accept that I will be alone probably, but still I would love to have a girlfriend/wife to spend my life with. It just seems like it’s already too late or almost too late. My friends are getting engaged, getting children, living together and living their best life’s. While I am approaching 30 without experience or anything. My friends and their partners often say why don’t you have a girlfriend you’re so lovely and caring and smart. But when I ask them if they know someone single to approach me to they don’t know anyone. Which hurts. It won’t get easier too since the more and more people will find someone and the pool will get smaller and smaller. I see a lot of young boys and girls (like 16-23) around as a couple and I think like why can they have a relationship so young and with all the things I have to offer not a single person likes me? It feels kinda unfair.


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