Hey,
Just wanted to explain the situation a bit. I’ve been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now through Instagram, calls, and mostly voice messages. She’s been really stressed with work, lost weight, even ended up in the hospital and stuff, and she’s shared all that with me. The only reason i didn’t ask her out earlier is because i didn’t want to put more pressure on her than she already had.
She told me early on that her last day was April 23, so I thought i’d ask her then. But then i realized she’s going home for a week to relax before starting a new job.
So I sent her this:
I wanted to ask you out as soon as you finished, I just didn’t want to stress you more. I just want you to know I genuinely want to meet you in real life, so you don’t think I’m just playing around. But we can do it when you’re back home, inshallah.
Also, just for context about our culture. We don’t really do the whole dating for years, living together, then maybe getting married. The intention with dating is marriage. Not saying there’s any pressure or anything, but yeah, you still get to know each other normally, just with some boundaries haha.
Anyway, she replied:
“Good morning, we’ll see in the future 🙏”
How you doing today (i was at in the hospital)
How should i respond to that? And how should i interpret it? Like should i say something, maybe a joke about it, go with the flow donät mention it and just ask her in 1 week when she is back?
Thanks