Hi guys! A guy (36) I (28) met on IG back in March 2023 keeps coming back, but I don't want to date him and I never will.
We went on a casual date at the local park and had a cup of coffee (that was in March 2023). I knew during that date that I didn't want to keep wasting his time if all he wanted from me was a relationship and I told him immediately after the date. Tbh, I just didn't enjoy my time with him, I did all the talking, asking all the questions, he was just smiling and really didn't say much and I really didn't find him attractive( I never told him about the unattractive part because I don't want to ruin his self-esteem). He kept pushing for another date, but I said no. I told him if he didn't want friendship with me then we should part ways and after him pushing for a few more days, he gave up and we stopped communicating.
Fast forward to October 2023, he comes back again asking me how I am doing. I thought he changed his mind and became open to communication. For him to start pushing for dating once again, telling me he has to time to waste, he is in his 30s already and he kind be just friends with me. I refused once again and he called me ugly, he said I was not that attractive anyway and was not worth the time, he said lots of other thing that I honestly don't remember everything because it became one huge word salad. He blocked me.
I was blocked until the beginning of this this month until he unblocked me and followed me on IG again trying to slide into my DMs. He kept replying to my stories until I posted on stories that I'm currently not looking to date. I believe he's muted me now, but still follows me.
I think he still has his hopes up even though I rejected him 3 times already and I'm starting to feel very uncomfortable. I have never lead him on, I have never said that I might change my mind and I don't understand why he keeps being mad, but he still comes back. At this point I don't even want him as a friend since I saw how cruel he can be to ladies who reject his advances.
Should I simply block him?
Edit: I confronted him and rejected him again and he called me insane 😀