Ok not to get too graphic, but whenever my husband and I are having sex and I start to get close to climaxing he always pulls out and switches to his hand, when I want him to keep going with his package. He’s great with his hands and I always leave the room a happy camper. But I can’t help but feel like it’s uncomfortable for him to be inside me when I orgasm? Idk if I’m squeezing too hard, but if he does stay inside while I orgasm, I feel like he goes a little soft after and has to get back up… I’ve tried googling and it only ever gives me result for painful orgasms for women. Not painful for men when women orgasm. Basically I’m wondering if any men have ever felt it painful or uncomfortable to be inside your partner when she climaxes? Is there anything I can do to make it better for him? I just feel like I’m getting in my head and have become very self conscious during sex, trying not to climax during penetration for fear of hurting him. Please let me know if you as a man have ever experienced this, or if perhaps something else is going on. I know I should just ask him as we’ve been married for 10 years, but I don’t want him to think that it’s something I don’t like about how he shows up in our physical relationship. Like I said I’m always very satisfied, just don’t know how to approach the conversation without hurting his feelings/ego and making things worse in the bedroom. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
-just a girl who wants to please her man
TLDR: has it ever been painful for your member to be inside your partner when she orgasms?