Met a girl (F26) through mutual friends at a bar. We ended up sitting next to eachother and kept talking for like two hours. Her friends got up to leave but she wanted to stay so we just kept talking and having fun.
Nothing more happened cause we both got really drunk. But then we met again a few weeks ago and ended up at an afterparty where she got extremely flirty with me and kept touching my leg, my shoulder and my beard and kept giving me these super intense looks for like an hour. Again, everyone got super drunk.
I asked her out for some beers a few days later. She accepted, we met up and had a nice time. But she says she blacked out and doesn't remember anything from the afterparty.
I didn't really escalate much or got flirty with her on the date, I got so confused when she said she doesn't remember any of it. So I kinda chickened out and we ended up just having another nice talk.
The two times we've met while drunk it has felt like a type of chemistry and vibe that I've literally never felt before, which gave me the courage to ask her out. But the date ended up being so… casual? Idk. Like I said, I've never been on a date before, and now I don't know what to read from this situation. The date was really nice but guess I expected something else.
I literally don't know what to do next, if I even should do anything. I wanna hang out with her more but I fear that she's not that interested and that she already see me as nothing more than a friend.