How to handle this situation? I have a friend who keeps visiting me often…. it has happened 4 times already. All my friends have settled down with family and I am the one who is unmarried. I am staying alone because i like staying alone undisturbed and following my routine. But since I stay alone, it makes for for people to come uninvited and stay as long as they wish.
Few weeks back he told me he would be coming here for some work and will be visiting me. And me knowing his habbits for stretching for 3 or 4 weeks with no real work at hand, i said politely i would not be there at my place. When he said I could handover over the key to him before i leave so he could stay.. i somehow managed a no.
But now, he has done the same thing again. Problem is not the visit itself, he stays to himself.. but my home is a small one and all my TV and everything are there if he is there,since he doesnt work.. he keeps sleeping till very late in the morning and so.. and all my schedule gets disrupted because i have to make sure i dont make the noises obvious. And since he has occupied fhat space, i will be left with only other small portion of my own home.
How should I handle this situation