Apologies for the strange question and a bit of TMI- I'm just not sure what to do.
Basically we both had sex for the first time with each other (over a year ago), and have been intimate a good number of times since then, but recently it genuinely hasn't been the same. He finishes faster than usual, I sometimes can't finish, but we are still doing it the same (if that makes sense?) if not trying out some other stuff. The issue is that we both don't really want to get into super kinky stuff but the physical feeling is much less intense than it used to be.
How can we bring that back? (no suggestions to go on birth control or to do it without a condom)