Pls tell me if I’m being unreasonable but this just does not sit right w me.
I (26F) started dating this guy (26M) a month ago. We instantly hit it off at the first meet, he was leaving the city in 2-3 days so we decided to meet again the day he was leaving. He lives around an hour away from my place, and it was late so I asked him to come near me. It started raining and he had to travel for 2 hours in rain on a bike. I couldn’t go because of the storm, and when I apologised to him, he was so nice abt it. He said it’s not my fault and did not make me feel bad.
After that we met a week later, we’ve been on 5/6 dates till now. We’re sexually active as well. The chemistry is insane. I feel very comfortable and safe around him. I’m generally a very anxious person but with him, the conversation flows so smoothly and everything feels natural.
Now the thing is, ik I prob sound stupid but after the almost second date when he travelled all the way in rain to see me, and how graceful he was with me not being able to meet him, I stopped talking to other people. I just didn’t feel like it. To me, that gesture felt genuine. But I saw him changing his location on hinge. I didn’t take it badly at that time because, we still weren’t exactly exclusive. But rn, he’s in a different city for some work interviews, and I saw him change his location to that city. And I’m feeling really really really upset. I’m really mad. We have not had the exclusivity talk yet, but we’ve been on 5-6 dates now, is it wrong for me to expect him to not use hinge? Like us going on dates, looking at each other lovingly, the chemistry.. was that all a lie? I feel really upset. Am I being unreasonable here? Obv I do need to have a talk w him…but idk how to go abt it..obv I can’t tell him I’m watching his hinge acc to see if he updates his location.