its very long story but it will be good ,
im M(22) she F(22)
this is from my btech(undergraduate) in 1st year i have a crush on one girl but im not much interested in her as i have other goals to complete , one day my friends asked me on whom i have crush so i said her name casually , my friends used to mock me but i didnt cared much , in these three years i just barely talked to her like i want that subject notes , when is the bus coming? nothing much , so in the final year my friend said this your chance go get it , im very shy to speak to her i tried but it couldnt workout suddenly i was hospitalized(july) with typhoid after that i have completely killed feelings for her as she wasnt much interested, but in this march there was a college event , my friend brainwashed me again to confess her im very resistive about that i did not confess that day , but the later day i hesitated at first but i said i used to have feelings for you she said ok ! i asked if i still love you what would be the answer she said no ! i said its ok not a problem she went outside of the class my friends told me to just go out and talk to her i said no but i have a question why did she said no , there may be many reasons but i wanted to know whats wrong with me , i asked she said she will not say i was like "whattt wtf?" ok i asked" are you in love with someone?" she noded yes . i said ok i have project work to do and bye and i left to the computer lab . my friends are calling me i asked why? they said she wants to talk to you . i went to the class again i asked whats the matter my friends left her so there is only me and that girl , she said" i dont want to break your heart you will find a better girl than me(typical sentimental dialogues) infact there is no better girl than me but you will def find good girl(too much overaction and highly delusional)". i was like ok i can take it im a strong man .
she gave me cucumber to eat i ate , she said about her likes and dislikes , i asked which movies you often watch she said"i watch movies rarest of the rare(she watches movies very rarely)" i was like i couldnt bare this overaction again she only said shes interested in action movies ! ok ! she asked me suggest some good anime i suggested my all time fav ones while going home i texted her thanks for the cucumber the reply was 2 hours late i thought she might be having some other work (the day is friday) ! on sunday there is a wedding of my friend's sister , so on saturday he asked me is she coming or not i said idk he said ask her! on saturday i asked her on whatsapp the reply came on sunday on the wedding day and its a no ! i immediately asked her why did it took one day for replying she said she was out of town and couldnt attend the marriage i confined myself ok everyone has their works and i should do my work and doesnt interfere in other works , but i could literally observe that she is ignoring me , the next day in college she called me i was in shock why this girl is calling me , i lifted ! her friend(girl) said she wants to talk to me i went outside of the class and asked what up she said i want your help in our project i said if its small task i can do it or else cant , she said its about editing the document , i said i cant do it as the laptop isnt supporting and said i will try it in my laptop when i go home ! i asked her "did you watch the anime i recommended " she said "no" i really felt guilty for suggesting my fav anime to unworthy people and asked "why are you ignoring my texts ?" she said "if you speak as a friend without other intentions i will speak to you 24hrs and if you have intentions i wont speak to you" i said "ok now onwards i will kill the feelings for you and bye for the lifetime and i wont speak to you again" ( i just dont want to waste time as acting like a friend and secretly developing the feelings)
she sent the document for the editing i wantedly havent seen for 2 hours she called me i didnt lift , she called me again i said what ? she said please edit the document i said i will try . i only thought this one in my mind " if i edit the doc and sent her my job is done and i can never talk to this girl " so i edited and sent her the doc and said the changes i have made , she called and talked like a very good girl for half an hour asked about my whereabouts and my personal things , i said to my other friend i have done the job so she was talking sweetly and said she will not message me again as the work is done and she didnot message me! these type of girls go to some kind of extent to get their job done , if there is some work with other guy she will talk nicely with him and get the job done shameless , im really happy that she is gone in my life this is peace for me . my friends given me the motivation for talking with her but it didnot workout ! even if she said yes in the starting it would be a trouble for me as i couldnt bare that much overaction , her friend said she has no boyfriend just acting , she wants the boys to talk her first she has ultimate ego ! and body of red flags there is boy in my class who confessed her but didnt work out ! the only expression she always gives is -" why did god made me so beautiful , why everyone is attracted to me"-really too much overaction
TLDR:- girl did too much overaction so i left her
please bare my english as im still improving ! thank you for reading