So long story short an friend of mine (and ex fiance of my old abusive boss) opened my eyes to how my last girlfriend was destroying me and taking everything away from me that made me who I am. One night we kissed after my previous girlfriend dumped me and replaced me. What came next was false police reports, I got fired, the 31 year old woman I was talking to got bullied. Yet we still found ways to spend days together and hours on the phone dreaming about the future we could have. We both admitted we need to see what time has in store. However she has come over to my house and we’ve engaged in everything under the son even to the point of her wanting children with me. A night can be like that 1 day and then the next she tells me she wants nothing to do with me and she never had feelings. Then 2 days late she comes back and says “I don’t know what it is but I am magnetized to you”. She cries every time she pushes me away and gets even angrier when I don’t hate her and treat her exactly the same way. This time she’s acting completely different and being aggressively short. I have nothing really going on in my world other than work so I have the patience to just let things be and see how it goes because I think it would be worth waiting for. What would your opinion be on a hot and cold European woman going back and forth? It wouldn’t matter so much if the time we spent together wasn’t life changing.