I think dicks are really fun and interesting! I'd love to play with one and see how it reacts and how I feel about doing it too. I love seeing dicks cum too it's really cute to me!! it would be really hot to play with multiple at the same time as well!! There's a problem though… I'm not really into men in general for some reason. I feel like I wouldn't really get into it if I was found a man or a group of men to play with, and I wouldn't really want any intimacy in general either. I just want to play with the dicks~ How can I think dicks are so fascinating and be sexually attracted to them but not into the bodies or people they're most of the time attached to?! Is there any way for me to explore this in a healthy and safe way at all, both in sexual health and my general safety? I've seen glory holes in porn before but I don't know if those even exist in real life and if they are, how to find one or how to be safe in one… These kind of situations are where I wish sexual services were legal so we could have an organized company setting all this up for people and keeping it safe haha. would love any type of help in navigating this!!


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  2. Trans women with their dicks is an option, or, as you mentioned, gloryholes. You could also get to know and get attached to a man who might then seem more attractive to you, but at the end of the day, only you knows what might work for you.

  3. Trans women are vastly overrepresented in sex work. If you want dicks on a female body and are willing to pay that’s an option. Condoms are good for sexual health. Glory holes are real. The kind you can just go to publicly without being part of a private club or event tend to be really seedy, and not what i’d reccomend, swingers clubs and often will have one and if you’re a woman (you didn’t specify) it’s fairly easy to get into them.

  4. Sex is a spectrum. It sounds like you’re a heteromantic bisexual. You like to play with a guy occasionally but you’re only interested in an emotional or romantic connection with women.

    You can find a sub reddit site in a city near you in order to find another guy like you who wants to experiment. Search for r/r4r and your city name or airport code. Just take your time, talk with the guy in order to make sure he’s a good fit. Meet in a safe place in order to vette them.

  5. Glory holes exist and are all over if you know where to look (lots of apps out there). Or even better, there are lots of guys who’d be just fine meeting up with you, and then you play with their dicks all you want.

  6. Me too I feel the same. Put a dick on a girl and I am all in. i feelI need a very very feminine young guy and that would do it.

  7. I’m exactly the same – cocksexual. Could not “snuggle” or anything with a guy, but very happy to play with them.

  8. You are not alone, there are many of us who feel exactly the same way. And we love cocks but that’s it! The problem is finding another like thinker because others rightfully expect more.

  10. If you have a chill guy friend, he’ll probably let you play with it. Just ask

    Just tell him all this stuff up front, you’re really only interested in playing with it

  11. This convo feels like it verges on fetishization. Here’s a article on that

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8035091/

    This feels like a pertinent quote from the article:

    “Objectification can affect different minorities and social categories, just as different dimensions of identity can be objectified. When these dimensions correspond to the body, where the value of a person is established primarily on the basis of their physical appearance, we refer to it as sexual objectification or sexualization (Fredrikson & Roberts, 1997). Sexualization occurs when someone is reduced to their body parts or sexual functioning”

    I believe there is a clear difference between sexual attraction and sexualization. One respects the person and one erases the person. Here’s another quote from the article/study:

    “Some participants described feeling as if they were simply a tool for others to use to fulfill a fantasy or to try out a novel sexual experience. These experiences left participants feeling as if they were not seen as real humans or individuals with emotions.”

    I’m all for exploring your sexuality, kinks, and what turns you on but I think, ethically, that cannot be done at the expense of a person.

  15. Easiest thing is a single guy friend who you are just upfront with. Plenty of guys would find that a fun and relaxing activity while you are hanging out.

    Just be clear with what you do and do not want to do then enjoy yourself.

  16. There are a lot of guys out there that aren’t attracted to men in the traditional sense, but participate in behavior that most would call “gay”. There’s no romance, just satisfying a sexual urge that most men probably have, they just won’t admit it

    Greeks of antiquity did it, there’s information on Spartans having sex with each other. Absolutely nothing strange or odd about it, you’re human. Embrace it

  17. Been there, I enjoy sex with other males with great hygiene and sex with females with great hygiene. Went down on a woman one time, and there was a USA postage stamp size and about as thick, smattering of poop on each thigh, things when flat after that discovery. Just like puss, dicks are fun and interesting to play with, and so are the balls. One of the downsides to cock is that a big dick could attached it; the downside to puss puss get pregnant. I try to avoid kissing guys, but sometimes I do. I am sexually attracted to males, but that’s where it stops.

    Find out where OGs (original gay) hang out and go there, don’t know if I would tell anyone I met there that I was ‘just curious.’ Personally, I would be careful in the ‘qt+++’ crowd; folks in there can be prickly, picky, and have an “all in or all out” attitude.

    Advice: Do it cold, stone sober, relax, and have some fun. Try sex with other males a few times. Like anything in life, sex with other males may or may not be for you

  19. Trans woman here,

    Omg don’t you dare seek us out so you can “play with our dick”.

    Most of us are dysphoric about that part of us, personally I don’t really like mine being touched by anyone else.

    I am appalled at the comments suggesting this.

  20. Yeah I’m kinda like you dicks turn me on as much as pussy does and turns me on feeling another guys dick even looking at them more if I see them jack off in front of me I’ve always liked seeing them since I was young but always was into girls and never would want to be seen or anyone find out that I liked dicks too

  21. Yeah I would do the same but then I wouldn’t want to lose that friendship and then all of a sudden they don’t talk to me cause of that it’s hard to open up to guy friends about stuff like that

  22. My (F) partner (Male) is so into dicks. He loves sucking, kissing, caressing, playing with dicks.
    He hosts men and does just that. Usually sucking to climax. He doesn’t want anything else to do with the man. Barely knows their name.
    There’s no sex or kissing.
    He does consider himself bisexual
    But not biromantic.

  23. I feel this so much because I’m a woman who loves boobs, like so much, but prefers to date and sleep with men. There is just something so fun, bouncy (Can I say squishy without sounding like Andy Stitzer from 40 Year Old Virgin!?), and just so nice to play with. So I know that we can definitely admire beautiful parts of the body (and even be turned on by them) without being attracted to the associated gender. As for your question, maybe you can visit the kind of sex clubs where people are super anonymous. Perhaps with masks or ways to hide your identity a bit, it might feel more like you’re exploring parts of the body without thinking too much of the actual person behind it? Just trying to think of a way where you can detach the act from the individual. Also, sex apps can offer forms of meetups where you discuss this beforehand, while the other party agrees to safe and consensual exploration. But don’t lead with “I’m not attracted to x,y,z”… maybe just explain that you want to have fun with a dick, only that, and see what the other person is open to?

  24. Dicks are often connected to bigger dicks… Maybe that’s why 🤷‍♂️

  25. Can we please not reduce people to the base value of their sexual organs?

    What if some guy posted, “I’m not into women because I don’t like them as people, but I want to play with boobs”? That would be pretty gross, yes?

  26. Find a local gloryhole.

    That’s about as dick as dick gets without intimacy.

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