Lately, my husband and I have our spats like any other couple. And our complaints while living with each other. However, he wants to gaslight me when forbid I am tired and decided not to put the dish drains back in the sink ( to be fair, it was the first day back to school, I only had 2 hours sleep, went to work, made dinner, cleaned enough, all while he goes to work gets on the game) it’s fine we respect each others hobbies. So, now he absolutely won’t drop the fact I didn’t return the dish drains baskets back to kitchen. ( I placed them on the drying rack) now I’m interested in hearing creative passive aggressive ways to get through to him. Mind you we talked about it we don’t agree. Normally we’d move on if he would stop being such a little girl about the sink stoppers that go in the drain.