I have been married for almost 2 years. My husband is 100% disabled due to a TBI but no one would really know by looking at him. He has a hard time retaining and recalling information. I came to understand that he couldn’t work (he could up to a specific amount of hours) but he chose not to and although if would be appreciated, I was ok that he didn’t because he pretty much kept the house clean while I worked. When we first got married he was paying almost $200 for cell phone services so I added him to my plan because it would save him money. He never bothered to pay the $30/mo it cost me, but I let it go. I added him to my dental insurance because his wasn’t great and he needed some dental work. I never even bothered to ask that he pay for his portion. But now it’s come down to this… he gets approximately 1300/mo in social security disability. He pays for our streaming services (approx $100) and Amazon ($14) every month. He buys whatever groceries he wants for himself bc I don’t really cook often and that’s about it. I pay for every household bill. I did the math and 83% of my paycheck goes to bills. I put $200 every paycheck to savings bc I want to prepare for our future. Every month he somehow blows through what he gets even though he doesn’t pay for anything. I asked him to pay a portion of his check to help with household expenses bc I don’t think it is fair that I pay for everything and it’s caused me to be resentful. He said that because he keeps the house clean and does yard work that those things are his contribution to the household. I’m at a loss and just feel like I’m being taken advantage of. Why does he think he can spend all of his money on whatever he wants but I need to support him and our household. Thoughts??