Me(20M) have been with my gf(20) for almost four years now and we are each others first in everything, and have done it many times but I can’t seem to give her an orgasm. I love her to death and really want to do this for her, but she can’t finish with penetration nor clit stimulation. She does have an orgasm when she does this weird move where she crosses her legs and and rubs her legs together and she loves to kiss me and give oral while doing and that really helps her achieve orgasm. But I want to give her an orgasm through penetration or clit stimulation. I have gone down her before many times and I’ve been there for what I believe is almost 30 to 40 mins sometimes and she will shake intensely and moan loud but then she says there is no release and that she felt like she couldn’t reach like it’s her own version of blue balls. She has played a dildo and with clitoral stimulation but she never can reach an orgasm even with that. I believe she doesn’t really understand her body and I’m in the same boat and I don’t want her to know how frustrating it is for me to not give her that release, because I know that would make things worse, I’m really open to being more experimental with her with toys and any positions but ofc nothing crazy immoral you know. I just wish I can be her release instead only her being mine.