I’ve been with my husband for 7 years, married for three of those. Sex was never an issue until the last two. Never could get hard or stay hard. Would cause us to fight and yell at one another. It’s been almost a year since the last time we had sex. I have made him go to doctors and all he tells me is “the doctor said the blood work is fine.” He tells me what will turn him on is positivity. I have tried everything. What would you do?
Edit: the yelling isnt happening in the act of him not getting hard. It’s later down the road when we’re trying to discuss how to get help for this issue by going to a doctor and talking about how to help with this.