28M and 29F So my bi-sexual wife of 1 year and some change (4+ years together) recently after coming off birth control has had her libido increase and is more sexually active. Great for me but now she wants some change and feels confused saying she is curious about sleeping with another woman/women (idk) before locking in having kids.
Feels like cheating to me in some sense since I have no desire in another woman but do I just let her tease that itch and have a one night stand? She says she may never be able to shake that feeling and always be in the back of her mind. Would she leave me later in life?
I’ve proposed a plan to offer her:
You can have the 1 night stand but not again with the same person and I get to go to the strip club (went recently w/ her and each had a lap dance and was fun/interested in a 3 way after as an experience together which she agrees would be fun) by myself and do whatever I want
Yes or no