My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Two months ago I told him that I have become comfortable enough with him to tell him that I'm a very submissive person. I asked him to try little things, like saying certain things to me during sex, like how he likes to fuck me hard or how he likes to fuck my ass and so on.
I think ever since I've told him he has been pushing my boundaries a little and it has gotten a lot more recently. Before anybody says I should talk to him, yes I've talked to him a couple of times now. It always goes down when I talk to him and then at some point he just mixes it up with the normal stuff. It's hard to talk to him about it.
Nowadays when we have sex I feel like his actions are more oriented towards degradation than just being dominant. I think he had already had a very big kink for degradation. I think it's coming out now that I told him that I'm submissive. He says stuff to me during sex that is very degrading sometimes and also sometimes does things to me that, in the moment, I just let it slide but afterwards I'm kind of concerned about it. He will say things to me that are either humiliating or more. He started suggesting things that involve him pissing on my face and just being very rough with doggy style and so on. I feel very dirty afterwards or very humiliated but I still love him very much and I want to try and work this out.
Not sure how to go about this without breaking the relationship