Hi everyone, I (28F) really need some perspective because I feel completely emotionally drained.
This Sunday was our 1-year anniversary. Instead of celebrating, he (26M) told me he couldn’t keep trying in the relationship anymore. I called him that same day, crying and basically begging, and he said it wasn’t worth it, that things aren’t the same anymore. He also told me that because our sex life hasn’t been great, he’s lost some of the sexual attraction he used to feel for me.
I was completely heartbroken, but I tried to start accepting it.
Then today, out of nowhere, he messaged me saying he wants to try again. That he loves me so much, that he’s not ready to lose me and doesn’t know if he ever will be.
A few hours later… he’s confused again. Saying he doesn’t know what he wants, that he’s unsure if he wants to continue or not.
I feel like I’m on an emotional rollercoaster. One moment I have hope, the next I feel rejected all over again.
I love him deeply, and part of me wants to fight for this. But at the same time, I feel like I’m being pulled back and forth and it’s exhausting. I don’t know if I should give him space, wait for him to decide, or just walk away.
Has anyone been through something like this? What did you do?