I know my husband loves me, but I don’t get much attention from him, physically and emotionally. He’s constantly on his computer when he’s not asleep or at work, and our sex life is nonexistent. He says he just doesn’t care about sex anymore, which isn’t that big of a deal, but I have emotional needs too. He thinks spending time together is us sitting in the same room but he’s in discord with friends with a headset on and playing games so he can’t even hear me when I say something to him. I’m just extremely lonely and want attention specifically from him. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve tried talking to him about it and it just gets brushed off. He says he stays on the video games to help his stress and stuff and that I just stress him out even more wanting too much from him. Separating is out of the question, he’s my person and always will be. I just want to know what to do to feel less alone and be able to be emotionally independent. Also idk if this makes a difference but I’m on antidepressants and stuff for BPD, CPTSD, anxiety, insomnia, mania, and bipolar disorder. He’s also bipolar but not medicated.


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