I don’t have tiktok. But about a month or 2 ago my girlfriend posted on a selfie on her tiktok story (not a problem at all). but some guy liked it and she screenshotted him liking it. and posted the screenshot to a private snapchat story (that i’m not on even tho i do have snapchat) with the caption “ok so you can go away”. which came off kinda flirty and weird to me considering i wasn’t on that private story and never knew about it but she also sent the ss to her friend who just responded saying “ewww”. so i’d assumed they were just laughing at him. (i had only seen all this because i was looking through her phone.) I asked her who it was and she said it’s an old friend she hasn’t talked to in over a year. The next day i realized the same dude popped up as the third option when she pressed share on tiktok as if they’d been dming (i understand that random people can show up there) i asked her why out of all people he was showing up there and she explained to me that everyone in her share has dmd her before but her reason for him being there was just “i just want him to go away”. Which was weird but i get over it and assumed she blocked him like she does everyone else i have an issue with. Fast Foward to 2 nights ago she does her nails without my initials on them for the first time ever and doesn’t show me them (im always excited when she does her nails because she likes to show me and i like to see my initials.) (she also wants to be a nail tech). When i asked her why she didnt show me them her answer was just “i forgot” so im like ok bet she’ll come over tonight and i can see them in person anyways so it’s fine. she comes over and i realized she posted them to her tiktok story and the guy who liked her story a while back saw it and he was still the 3rd option when she presses share. Not angrily but i calmly asked her why she didn’t block him or do anything about him like she does for EVERY other guy i’ve had an issue with. And instead of just having a normal adult conversation and maybe helping me clarify/ clear up some of my overthinking about it. she got mad at me and defensive and then lies by telling me she did block him a few days after he liked her story 2 months ago (which is obviously not true considering the fact that i literally saw him see her story that night). So she goes to the bathroom with her phone. I’m assuming she blocked him while she was in there because she never brings her phone to the bathroom and she came out and immediately opened tiktok trying to make me look and prove to me that she’s had him blocked. It was so blatantly obvious she blocked him in the bathroom i almost feel like she wanted me to know. I told her i knew she was lying because i saw him see her story just an hour prior to this convo and she just kept lying and getting mad, swearing he’d been blocked for over a month now. Which i don’t understand because she could’ve just told me she forgot to block him or that she hadn’t gotten around to it and i would’ve understood. but instead she lies and tells me she blocked him a long time ago when i obviously know she didn’t. Which makes her look guilty and gives me more questions then closure. . I wasn’t even mad just wanted to talk about it. i told her if i can’t get over this that we might have to breakup just because of how weird it was and she couldn’t sleep the whole rest of the night after that. Until around 11 am we made up, fucked and took a nap before i had to go to work like everything was ok. I haven’t felt an ounce of attraction to her since i woke up from that nap because i can’t get over the thought that she was being so weird about it because she might have done something wrong behind my back. I think she knows i’m ready to breakup too because she’s been way more friendly and touchy and actually trying since then. shes also making me banana bread an cookies tonight which is something she hasn’t done in a while. but it makes me sad how quickly i lost interest after that because i’ve always been so obsessed and she’s never done anything weird. her phones always been an open book, she always lets me go through it and we’ve had a great relationship besides this. If anybody has any advice on what i should do next or how i should perceive this it would be very helpful?
Tldr: my girlfriend lied to me by going to the bathroom to block somebody and said she’d blocked him months ago