I feel like people see the lack of dating success as a moral failure sometimes. Because the advice given is always about stop being desperate and see women as people. The thing is though, I don't think a lot of men who struggle in dating don't see women as people lol.
Dating is still a skill regardless of how righteous you are. Not only that, being too nice to a woman is a sure fire way of her saying she doesn't feel a spark. Also how do you explain guys who are just dogs who sleep around with no cares of how a woman feels?
It's just a bad argument to describe someone's situation of being single. Lastly, if you got to the point of getting no dates, it has to do with presentation and less about your interactions with women.
Just heard this idea throw around a bit and it is concerning me because most men that struggle in dating aren't struggling because they don't see women as people but instead they haven't learn how to be attractive