Hi!
So my wife and a coworker used to hookup regularly years ago before we started going out and before me and the coworker became friends.
Fast forward to now and we are all good friends, no ill feeling anywhere. Lately I’ve been noticing she mentions him a lot more in general conversation.
He has told me before that when he has sex with girls it was all about power and control for him and he would have all his girls call him “master”, “sir” and “daddy” during sex.
The last two occasions me and my wife have had sex, on the first occasion, when in doggystyle I would say “say my name”, usually this results in my wife immediately saying my name but instead she took a few moments before saying it which felt like she was trying to be careful not to say the wrong name?
The second occasion was 3 days ago, again, when we got to doggystyle I asked her to say my name and for the first time ever she wouldn’t say it, she replaced my name with “daddy” every single time.
I just feel that she’s thinking of our coworker or am I reading way too much into this?
Has anybody been in a similar situation?
Sorry for the long read!